Be careful when you choose to date an older person
What you need to know:
- Eventually, you will desire to start a family of your own which this old woman won’t be willing to do. And the efforts to break free might not be that easy. Be warned that sugar daddies/mummies are possessive and jealousy.
- They do not let you go that easily. Some are even willing to kill you rather than see you with someone else.
Times are changing; the old fancy the young and the young date those old enough to be their parent. Psychologists will associate this behaviour to childhood unfulfilled feelings for example, a girl who never got a chance to grow up with a father will always desire to have an adult father figure in their life, some of which unfortunately just date them which is quite disturbing if you are looking for someone to fill the fatherly position.
Other young adults date older people just for what they have to offer.
A young and struggling boyfriend might not be able to provide you with the life you fancy; that cozy apartment, an Iphone X, pay your bills and connect you to that dream job so you go for a shortcut, a sugar daddy.
And since he gives you the life you have always dreamed of, you waste your youth on him. But do you think he has any future with you? I do not think so.
Your parents and family might not openly criticise your relationship because they are partly blinded by the money but deep down, they will be bleeding. No parent raises their child only to be another old man’s shadow. It is like switching from one’s biological parents to the “sugar parents”.
Funnily, some people claim it is maturity to date older people. I agree, childish spouses can be a burden. A boyfriend who thinks less of a man can be tiring but trust me, growing up before your time might come back to torment you in future under what psychologists call ‘fixation’.
It is okay to be silly at 20 than act like a war veteran. Do not wait to wake-up at 50 years of age and start chasing after high school boys because you spent all your energetic and adventurous years with a sugar daddy who imprisoned you under his riches.
And to my dear brothers; hard work pays. This habit of giving in to older women just because she has bought you a car and promises to start a business for you is very misleading because these kind of dreams never last.
Eventually, you will desire to start a family of your own which this old woman won’t be willing to do. And the efforts to break free might not be that easy. Be warned that sugar daddies/mummies are possessive and jealousy.
They do not let you go that easily. Some are even willing to kill you rather than see you with someone else.
