Be in control when lonely
Dear married man, never tempt a desperate soul. A frustrated married man and a desperate single woman should never be left alone in the same room.
Whereas a married man is searching for a breather away from his nagging wife, the poor single desperate woman is looking for warmth and someone to make her feel worthy.
A frustrated married man is not thinking straight, all he wants is someone to help him forget about the misery in his marriage even if it is just for a few minutes, hours, days or even months. He desires to be in control again, come back home late and get some anytime he desires to.
All he desires for is someone to rekindle the flame. The desperate woman is however searching for somebody to fill the void, anyone to show off to her friends and family. She is tired of people labeling her ‘single’ and she wants to prove to them that she too can be in a relationship. She is no longer looking for a career man with a big title and coming from a good family. At this age, she can’t afford to, she is so desperate that she will marry anyone fate brings her way.
These two people have a lot in common, but in the long run; they will both crash. The married man might die in his own movie, when he actually falls for the woman he was intending to have for a one night stand and same with the woman, she might end up getting attached to someone who is unavailable.
The truth is, this man might never leave his wife and children for this woman and if that ever happens, he might never settle with her just as the saying goes, “if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you.” So the only thing that will stand between them is lust.
It is okay to be desperate but avoid making a permanent solution in a temporary situation. You might find yourself jumping from a frying pan to a burning furnace. Be in control when you are lonely, don’t allow emotions to cloud your judgment. A married man should never be the soft pillow to lay your loneliness on and you should never open up that door. Once it’s open, you might not find the energy to close it.Dear married man, be kind enough not to take advantage of a vulnerable desperate woman. You are not what she needs, and vice versa. All you need is a weekend away from home, get freshair, re-watch your wedding video and go back to your wife.
You will not stay, and you will not fill the void in her heart, she will not be a solution but rather a danger that will destroy you and your entire family. If one woman (your wife) is stressing you, my dear, two women will drive you to Butabika. It might seem harmless in the beginning but after you have stepped in that ditch, be sure to come out dirty and bruised.
My dear desperate single woman, being desperate is like being drunk; it will not last but what you do when you are drunk can affect you when you sober up. Do not allow to be desperate that you hold onto somebody and let go of yourself and your dignity in the process. Do not let the pressure force you into settling for less than what you deserve.This kind of relationship is not built on love but on selfish desires. It will not last but will cause a painful scar that will haunt you all your life.
