Don’t wait for him to walk to you, make the brave first move

Waiting for love to look for you might be a fantasy. It does not hurt for you to change the rules of engagement.

What you need to know:

  • Nothing hurts like giving up when you know you could win. Waiting for love to look for you might be a fantasy. It does not hurt for you to change the rules of engagement. Wake up and look for love. Any woman can get any man she has set her mind to...some men just need a little push.
  • Men have a belief that they can date any woman they set their mind to. Well, it’s time to think like men. Stop torturing yourself with heartache and jealous every time you see him flirting with another girl. It is time to jump from the passenger seat and take the wheel. If he is so lazy to drive the relationship, go on and take the lead.

What do you do if there’s a cute dress you look at every time you pass by that boutique? Do you just keep staring until one day you find it off display? Chances are, if you are seeing it and loving it, many more are likely to have the same idea but the difference might be, they are willing to enter the boutique, find out the price, pay for it and take it home.

Well, now there’s that cute man in office, neighbourhood, church that you have been crushing on ever since you laid eyes on him. You waited for him to man-up and walk to you but he is playing hard-to-get. The sheepish smiles you offer him every time you meet in the corridor seem to go unnoticed. And all the lovely gestures seem to be falling on a dry ground. You have done everything to send signals to the brother but he is acting all naive as if winking to a blind man. Should you just let him walk away and fall into someone else’s arms? The fact that your heart skips every time you see him should be your inspiration to walk to him and take that brave move.

Men have a belief that they can date any woman they set their mind to. Well, it’s time to think like men. Stop torturing yourself with heartache and jealous every time you see him flirting with another girl. It is time to jump from the passenger seat and take the wheel. If he is so lazy to drive the relationship, go on and take the lead.
It is prestigious to be chased by a man but not all men are that brave, they have never been mentored into it. So if you feel like he will make a perfect prince for you, get off your back and pursue your dreams.
Dreamers never win in life. only people who stop dreaming and decide to turn their dreams into reality receive the medal.
Nothing hurts like giving up when you know you could win. Waiting for love to look for you might be a fantasy. It does not hurt for you to change the rules of engagement. Wake up and look for love. Any woman can get any man she has set her mind to...some men just need a little push.

Is it against the law? Maybe in your village but the last time I checked, it was not among the 10 Commandments.
Do you know the number of lonely men in the city? They pretend to be so unavailable but they hustle with loneliness and they wish a girl could just come knocking at their door. Well, you can choose to be that girl. Chase for love until you find it. Stop whining and dipping into loneliness, there are more fish in the pond but it is up to the fisher to set the net right.

The same societies making you feel ‘unwomanly’ over chasing a man are the same that keep gossiping about your failure to get one. So, you can either choose to please society and bury your happiness or choose your happiness over anything else.

It is fulfilling to chase your dreams. And I think a man will love a woman who is a go getter...so walk to that man and invite him for coffee or dinner. Let us know how the game goes.

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