If you cheat on your spouse, be ready for the outcome

If you have no plans of dancing, you are advised to stay away from the dance floor; but if you insist, you should be ready to dance to the tunes. You might wonder why someone goes out cheating and yet does not want to ruin their marriage.
“Sometimes it is just for fun and nothing serious is intended.” Some people will claim while others say that, “Cheating does not mean I do not love my spouse.” This sounds sane to whoever is using it for an excuse but to the one listening, it is rather disturbing to the ear.

Patrick rode on this route, he knew it could be the seductive way to hell but he did it anyway. He got a young woman to ignite the fire in his ‘aging body’. He claims he came clean with the young woman about his interest and that he was a married man so the other party should take all the precautions. She smiled at his idea of taking contraceptive pills every after a ‘meal’ (morning after) and he believed her. The girl on the other hand had fallen for Patrick and she decided that she needed more than the fling.

Four months later, Patrick sobered up and wanted to end the ‘side dish’ business but it was not as easy. She was pregnant and no matter how much he offered, she swore on her Christian name that she would never commit ‘murder’, not for a baby she also wanted to have. Before Patrick could figure out a way out of this nest, the girl’s family intervened.
When the wife found out, she called it quits. Regardless of what Patrick said to explain for his behaviour, all that the wife heard were empty noises from a man he had shared a matrimonial home with. She took the children and left him to figure out his own mess.

Patrick was wrapped in his own mess that he had decided to end his life if it was not for the security guard who miraculously found him lying half dead on a porch. He was rushed to the hospital and it seems God was not ready for him either. He was revived and when his mother was ushered into his room at the hospital, her eyes could not hold the tears. Patrick thought his mother-felt bad at losing him but all she said to him was, “Son, maybe I never told you this while raising you. For every man who lays a bed, he must actually lay in it. Do not run away from the life you chose. Who do you think will pay for your actions? Now that God has given you a second chance, you should man-up and dance to the music you played yourself.” She left the room and all of us who had rushed to the hospital were left speechless.

Life is like an ocean, once you decide to swim in it, you should be able to dance with the waves. Make your decisions wisely being aware that what you do today might be your nightmare tomorrow.