If you do not plan on marrying her, don't impregnate her
Kenya ranks among the 10 most dangerous countries for a woman to give birth in the world. PHOTO | FILE | NATION MEDIA GROUP
What you need to know:
- Whereas women should be more cautious, men need to be more sensible. The responsibility of a child’s welfare solely falls on them.
- You might be tempted into just having a child but don’t get things twisted. Being desperate for a child must not override reason. You don’t have to convince yourself that you were cut out to be a single mother.
Show me a single man, old enough to have a wife, and we will discover a baby mama who keeps calling for child support dumped somewhere in a muzigo.
And shameless as they come, men will blame this on a one-night stand or a drunken behaviour.
But it just amuses how they choose to sleep with someone who they don’t want to be with.
Well, some just want to satisfy their lust yet others will want a child to prove their manhood.
It’s okay if she is not the woman you want but shouldn’t you have known that before impregnating her?
Such is the life we live of an annoying lot of men whose selfish interests override reason. Why would you put an innocent soul in this cruel world if you are going to deny it.
Every child deserves to grow up around their parents and not in a home where daddy only visits over weekends or never visits at all.
Whereas women should be more cautious, men need to be more sensible. The responsibility of a child’s welfare solely falls on them.
And for women, you need to seriously think through this creeping false pride you have found in ‘single motherhood’. It is pretence and smacks of a society that never disappoints when it comes to “faking life”. No woman desires to live a lonely life. We all want someone who can scratch us where others don’t.
You might be tempted into just having a child but don’t get things twisted. Being desperate for a child must not override reason. You don’t have to convince yourself that you were cut out to be a single mother.
Bringing up a child with an absentee parent is quite frustrating and lonely at times for both you and the child.
Besides bringing up the child, nine months of pregnancy are life changing, therefore you need to go through them with a man worth it.
Men need to save us the baby mama drama. Stop impregnating women who you have no intention of marrying. Having a child is fulfilling but no one would want to suffer through motherhood alone.
Parenthood is cut out for two people. There is no reason as to why you as a man should choose to be an absentee father. So, if you are not planning on marrying her, do not make her pregnant.
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