Dear Heart to Heart, I need your help. I have a girlfriend and we have been together for two years. However, for the last three months, things have not been going well. We no longer share a bed, and whenever I tell her to sleep with me, she says no. I think that she has met someone who is her tribe mate. I need advice. -Ben
You must have annoyed her. Talk to her, ask her, listen and apologise. You will not be quitting on all the women you annoy. How many shall you marry? It’s all about communication.
Just let her go
She must be pregnant
Have you met her family? Why would she be sharing a bed with you? Have some respect and put a ring on it.
First find someone else and then let her go
Ladies are like China phones every one year you have to change. So my brother, do not stress yourself, Just move on.
I think you have rushed things especially bedroom issues before knowing each other too well. If you were already married, I would have said it’s too late but in your case, there is room to adjust by knowing each other better before you get married. Asking her would help too before making conclusions. She could have problems.
Bana Sly Mwansa
During your relationship, was it love or a lust?
Faizo Vinah Hearts
Sit down with her and discuss the issue.
Simon Peter Wamaobe
Give her time.
Are u aware that women are many? So think twice Ben!
There might be something wrong but if there is none, I suggest that you first pretend not to care about her for some time and see her reaction.
First discuss with her.
What does tribe have to do with your problem?
Joseph Opio Igwe
Be patient and analyse her well, do not rush to decide on anything before getting the cause.