Heart to Heart

She has two other men on the side

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Posted  Thursday, May 22  2014 at  01:00

In Summary

This woman is trying to compare you with other me. You are not a child, get out of this confusion. You are a man of DESTINY, re-focus and find a woman with a common dream.

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The problem
Dear Heart to Heart, I am in love with a girl who was dating two other men with my knowledge. However, when I tried to ask her how she handles all these affairs, she told me not to worry. She suggested that I also find another lover, but it is not like me. It seems to me that the love she has for me is just for fun. What can I do?
- Destiny


Your solutions
You sit there asking what you can do, well knowing she is a player? In the first place you don’t love her but you are dating her for fun and waiting to have sex and get HIV. If she tells you to find another girl, that means you are worse than the two she is dating. Think like a man, not a dummy.
Richard

My dear, first know why you are with her. If it’s for fun, then go ahead and have it, but if it’s for something different, think twice.
Caleb

Is she the only girl around? The Banyankore/Bakiga have a proverb which says: abakazi n’endeere, tizihwa mu rutookye (women are like banana leaves, there is always fresh leaves in a plantation) meaning that like banana leaves in a plantation, women are inexhaustible. No need to despair, there is always other women to love.
Zaitu

Would you mind testing for HIV? Do it just to find out your status, then quit the relationship immediately.
Richard

Dear Destiny, it is clear, can’t you see it? This lady is not suitable for you. Secondly, she is not serious with the relationship. It seems you are also in a dilemma, seeing that you have failed to make up your mind. How can you sit back and watch your girlfriend date other men? My brother, better wake up because this relationship is going nowhere. The lady does not love you anymore, that is why she has given you a go ahead to find another person. Destiny, God created one man for one woman. This woman is trying to compare you with other me. You are not a child, get out of this confusion. You are a man of DESTINY, re-focus and find a woman with a common dream.
N. Ojambo

Man, there are many girls in Uganda looking for men to love them.
Charles

I think you are not a young boy who needs to just be told what to do. Leave her and get yourself another beautiful angel.
Emmanuel

Eh! eh! That’s a criminal offence, report to CPS!
Francisco

Can you quit that relationship immediately! I think you just want to invite HIV for yourself. Think thrice!
Esther

If you cannot see what a baby can see, then go on with the relationship, otherwise you have been deceived.
Ben

If you are not psychologically ready for an open relationship, call it quits.
Jackie

What do you want us to tell you? She has already told you what to do. Even if we tell you to continue with her, she will not love you any better.
Julius

It is high time you accepted the truth, that she is not into you. Don’t wait for the worst moment to come and you think of quitting. You should have walked away earlier. So dear, think twice before you think of leaving her, may be she will change. These things happen.
Barbie

God treasures us and takes every one very importantly. Who is she then to waste your time? Forget about her.
Joe

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