Treat her the way you want your daughter to be treated

My cousin Jonell is proud of her father and her prayer has always been that God blesses her with a husband that behaves like her father. He treated her well as a daughter and she was proud of the way he treated all women, not only his wife but his mother, sisters and female friends, with respect. Some men, however, behave differently. They may be very protective and loving of their children but disrespect other females including their wives.

If you are a man out there and your daughter cannot wish to marry a man like you, then wait for hell fire. The Bible says you reap what you sow. Treat your fellows the way you would love to be treated. So, as you go around breaking women’s hearts, be aware that karma is patiently waiting for you at the corner. It might not catch you personally but it surely will not miss your favourite daughter or sister.
Bonny has six children from two women; five boys and one girl. His favourite is the girl. He loves her so much that he makes other children envious of her. His past two relationships failed on grounds he claims were the women’s fault but in only eight months, his current girlfriend has caught him cheating seven times. He seems to be a ladies’ charmer.

Every month, he throws a net to catch some idle and desperate woman. He claims he wants Jemmy for keeps but he cannot stop hooking up with other girls.
Last weekend, Jemmy stumbled upon an old shopping receipt as she was cleaning his house and lazily read through the items. Among them was lingerie. At first, she thought maybe he wanted to surprise her but the receipt was a month old and he had not said a thing about it or given her the knickers.
Her instincts drove her into asking him about it. “Oh, I was shopping for the children,” he replied. They had a heated argument but in an effort to prove him wrong, Jemmy snooped a little more and found heart-breaking texts on his phone. After nursing her wounds, she approached him and instead of apologising, he hit her so hard she hit the wall.

“You are so insecure. You are just trying to break up with me. I’m a perfect man,” he told her. “Well, if you are as perfect as you think, let us pray your daughter ends up with a man as ‘perfect’ as her dad,” Jemmy said.
This earned her abuses including being called a sorcerer for cursing his daughter. “Oh! Don’t you think I am also someone’s daughter?” she asked him.
If you want your daughters to end up with loving and respectful husbands, sow the seed now; start treating women right. If you do not want your daughter to be securing abortions at a tender age, do not force someone else’s daughter to do so. Do not be selfish. Treat people’s daughters the way you would love yours to be treated. That is no so hard. Women too should treat their husbands with respect so that the children imitate you.

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