You are not her type if her class threatens you

“You are not getting any younger, just lower your standards and get a man to marry you,” is common advice given to women who have a stable career and are perceived to be classy but have not found a husband. Society is quick to grab her by the ear and ask her to lower her expectations. “Men are threatened by your success,” so they say. Well, not everyone is meant to just end up with any man. A hardworking and brilliant woman is not the kind that will get married to a dreamless man.
Queens are not married off to the weak and weary but to the strong and dependable men. If a man feels threatened by a woman, then it is evident she is not his class.
“Why do I settle for a starlet when I can afford a benz?” Sarah asked her aunts who had tricked her into meeting them to tell her about settling down. “Husbands are not material things. You have built bigger empires but you have to lower your standards for men to be able to approach you,” they emphasised. They managed to get to her head and she was ready to give ‘men’ a chance.
She went on a few dates that always ended in her footing the bills. That was not an issue but throughout the dates, the men seemed to be five steps behind her, had no common matters to talk about and thus she spent most of her time on the phone. She used Uber taxis because she did not want to ‘threaten’ her dates with her car. She gave up on living in denial and decided to wait for the man who would meet her expectations.
Some men either have too much faith in themselves or they are living a lie. They believe that they can marry any woman. Sorry to break your heart, if you cannot keep up with the steam of a rising woman, it is better you settle for what you can handle.
My dear sister, do not be tempted into lowering your standards, if a man cannot jump higher, then he does not belong in your league. Let him go and the person who is not ready to settle with the weak will find his way to you.
And to brothers who think that ‘talk and talk’ will earn you a classy woman; it is time to wake up from that slumber. Good women come to serious men, men who won’t drink all their salary and blame the economy.
Unless you are a bar tender, if you spend more time in the bar than you spend working, you are not worth being anyone’s man. Tell me, why would you blame the economy when your fellow men are thriving in the same; cruising and putting up buildings? Dear sister, refuse to lower your standards for a man who cannot raise his.