You are not over someone until you stop...

Liar! You are such a fat liar if you call you ex all sorts of ugly names in public and yet you cannot last a week without stalking him or her on all social media platforms they subscribe to.
Woe unto you if you claim to be over that past relationship and yet you know their newest WhatsApp number off head or check their Instagram account first thing in the morning.
Yes, most people usually claim they are over someone but when they are behind closed doors, they sneak around and check their social media platforms.
You might think no one is watching, but my dear, you are doing yourself a disservice.
Stalking has become so advanced in this digital era. You do not have to spend a lot of money to do so. All you need is load a few bundles and voilà!, you can check out anything and anyone from the comfort of your seat or bed.
I will not play victim of online stalking; I have been there too. I was tempted to check whether he had really moved on. I wanted to know what he was doing, what he had eaten the previous night. I needed to confirm that there was indeed a brand new car in his compound like some of his friends had claimed.
Oh yeah, he surely had moved on. Not with the new profile picture that adorned his facebook and WhatsApp accounts. I had to pick up my broken pieces and quickly got over that specific person. Five months in, I am as clean as a whistle.
I do not remember when I last checked his wall. He on the other hand is still stalking me. I know this because he in-boxed me about something I posted on my page recently. I was in shock since he had proved to me previously that he wanted nothing to do with me. I had believed so until he offered me advice on what I should or should not post.
Very many other people go through this kind of torture for months or even years on end. But if you really want to close that chapter of your life, you should be willing to resist the temptation of stalking your ex on social media. This is purely because you do not gain anything out of it. As a matter of fact, all you are doing is opening up that wound and adding fire to loneliness - the kind of loneliness that you might never wake-up from.
Stalking will not help in your healing process my dear sister/brother.
So here is some advice. It is time to walk the talk and end that relationship once and for all. If you are the kind, that cannot resist the enticement, block the fella and before you know it, the desire to track him will die out.