You break my heart, I pierce your ego

Women are fragile, men know that and they use it to their advantage. Mind you, Mr Heartbreaker, do not call women lazy because they accept to love. They open up and let you in and what do you do in return? You crush their inner feelings and leave them in tears.

You call them naïve and easy to penetrate but they are not, as a matter of fact, you are the weak one. A man who is capable of luring a woman into a relationship with no intentions of making it work is a coward running away from his own feelings.

Revenge is not a good thing but tit for tat seems quite fair. Everyone is vulnerable at some point. Do not call someone who chooses to walk away after a heartbreak without any fight a fool. She is just respecting your decision and walking away in dignity but if you go ahead and torment her even afterwards, you are no less than a terrorist.

Roselyn and James had a disturbing break-up. James ended the relationship on claims that Roselyn was cheating on him. However much she pleaded innocent, James gave her a deaf ear. True, she had suitors who kept calling her and sending her love applications but she had not responded to any. Before James ended it with her, he had asked for her phone to check whether she was not cheating.

Determined to get over with these accusations, Roselyn obliged. He instead picked all the contacts of the suspects and sent them a message disguising as Roselyn calling her for a meeting. Five men showed up for that meeting at a restaurant and James showed up with Roselyn.

Roselyn was shocked to find all these men there. One was her ex, two were potential suitors, one was her cousin Sam and another was her workmate.

Not sure of what was happening, Roselyn asked her cousin and workmate to excuse them. James refused and threatened to shout and cause a scene. They all stayed put and waited until he decided to put each on a dock. “Are you the one sleeping with my girlfriend?” he asked.

At this rate, Roselyn could neither believe her ears nor her eyes. Her cousin stepped in and narrowly escaped a glass which James threw at him.

Roselyn picked her bag and walked away. James kept screaming at her and calling her all the dirty names.

Afterwards, her cousin decided to do some digging of his own and got some dirt on the man. It was not enough to drag him down but he decided to do it anyway. He called some media house which called James for a comment.

The rumour started going around about how he treats women and this cost him his job since the company did not want to be related to an abusive man. So when he paid Roselyn a visit at her workplace going against the restraining order, he was arrested and is now in prison.

Men, as you value your ego, women too value their feelings. Roselyn never raised a hand to her ex’s downfall but she sure enjoyed the results.