Will I ever get the right man?

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YRhoda, we all have disabilities of some kind. Yours is just visible, but for most of us, it is hidden. Some of us have bad tempers, terrible manners, are liars, snobs, too quiet, too moody and so many other things. So, for starters, don’t look at your disability as different. Just look at it as something that everyone can see compared to the other types of disabilities. Secondly, the most important thing a person can have is their character and personality. There could be many beautiful “whole” women out there, but if they are just after money, they will soon be caught out.

A good and honest man will look for a good and honest woman to marry, regardless of what she might look like. So let your character draw men to you. Be polite, humble and good natured. But be also proud of who you are and what you have done in your life. Do not let other people trample on you. Do not expect or invite pity. That just worsens the picture. Instead, show you can do things well with little or no help. Above all, be yourself. Don’t strive hard to be wild or an outgoing person if you are not that type. After a while, you will tire of it and your true character will show itself. Do not lower your expectations of what you want in a man even if people tell you to do so! They will not end up living with the man, you will. So you are better off marrying a man with the qualities you cherish. Know that you are not perfect and seek to learn how to improve yourself.
Carol, Kampala