Common Sense: Unfaithful married women are sowing a dangerous seed
According to the famous British female novelist Elizabeth Aston, men’s first loves are always perfect…until they meet their second love!
The second love too will be feted as the finest until he meets the third love, fourth love…and the cycle will keep going until the fellow meets his death, gets caught by the wife or discovers the joys of salvation and finally gets “saved!” But going with today’s “savedees”, it wouldn’t come as a surprise that the fellow will get back to his addictive habit and get it on with the young ladies in the church’s choir.
The same fellow will then move on to the many single females that flock today’s churches, and there too he will have his way. That’s not all for our “saved” brother in the house of the Lord, no. He will then meet a married woman, one fed up with her husband and his philandering ways and she will believe that the “humble and caring” man standing in front of her, comforting her with lines like, “God will finally give you someone worth you,” is the perfect man…and that will go on and on with different women.
It’s such a vicious and dangerous thing being a “cheat” don’t you think? The scary and disappointing thing is that the above is nowadays being done by women too. Married ones. It’s one of the most cofounding behavioural-changes in today’s woman. It’s the ability to become a cold-hearted serial cheat, with no regard to your husband, children, reputation and health.
These women come across as the happily married kind complete with the engagement and marital rings beautifully placed on their finger. Enquire about the husband and the reply will be swift, “We are happy enjoying our love,” followed with a smile and a picture of contentment. What acting! Steven Spielberg I’m sure would be impressed with the Oscar-like performances.
And why do they go off with other men? The reasons for that will have you choke on your morning coffee. “He has drifted away from me”, “He has become so quarrelsome,” “I’m fed up of reminding him to take care of me,” “We have simply grown apart and I can’t recognise him anymore.” The silliness doesn’t end there. Other reasons are more painful to hear.
“I’m tired of living a broke life. I need a man to take care of me. Someone who can afford me.” Others say, “He has been cheating on me so I want him to feel the pain too.” Then there are those, whose cruelty is worse than the famous fictional character known for his sadism, Hannibal Lector. “I think I can’t be with just one man for the rest of my life…period!” or “I think I’m addicted to sex.”
The above sounds unbelievable right? If you want to shock yourself out of your senses, go and do simple research and talk to owners of these lodges in private or talk with doctors who own dodgy clinics around Nakulabye. They will reveala tale about these kinds of women and how most husbands are unknowingly looking after sons that are not theirs.
It’s that scary. You see, the world we live in is a rotten place. It’s the kind of place where moral decay is looked at as a lifestyle of sorts. It’s a kind of place where sex is no longer that sacred desire that’s enjoyed by two people in love but rather something that’s done anywhere with anyone for whatever flimsy reason there is.
How can a bar be flocked by married women who party on until the wee hours of the morning, ignoring calls from the house maid alerting them about their four-year-old daughter’s body temperature that seems to be rising? How can a married woman be the talk within the men’s circles in bars with the topic ranging from how she’s slept with a certain businessman to rumours of her fourth born not being her husband’s? How can a married woman sleep with her boss at work, and then have the audacity to introduce her husband to him at the company’s Christmas party? How can a married woman be debased from the backseat of a Land Rover Discovery in a car park?
What happened to our married women? Don’t they know that marriage however bitter sweet can only serve its purpose if one is faithful? Don’t they know that despite the husband’s philandering, two wrongs have never made it right? Don’t they know that their young ones can be left without their loving mummy and daddy because of one’s addiction to trysts in backseats of Mercedes Benzes? Don’t they know that cheating can be addictive and that addiction can easily be passed on to the daughter?
Some might think the reasons given earlier by these women for cheating are valid or understandable. But how do I feel your pain by you shacking up with my best friend? I just feel anger towards you. The only person who feels the pain are the children who after we divorce will be left with no proper parental guidance in their lives.
Now for all you married women who sleep around, here is a quick one for you.Go home and look at your daughter, take a very good and hard look at her. Now would you like them to be like you? I rest my case.
