I have come to believe that love is like dawn, the daily mist either brings flourishing every single day or another day is another step closer to the end. Breakups are not an easy thing to do.
I don’t think most people really have a well-laid plan to break up with someone at the beginning of the courtship. Sometimes things just happen and no choice is left but to call it quits.
Most people think that it hurts less if you are the person who initiates the breakup but this might be an unfair assumption. Sometimes people even lovers are tested so hard that they tearfully give up. Not everybody takes the easiest way out; most people choose the toughest choice.
Although some people can barely feel a pinch when the relationship ends, that doesn’t mean that they are cold. It just means that we handle life situations differently, some people will cry and move on whereas others will play strong and prolong the healing process.
Whether you are the kind who isn’t moved by the breakup or the one who is torn into pieces when someone walks out on you, the reality remains; sometime, breakup is the best solution to that bleeding relationship. Because if you can envision a future without someone, its best to end it now than later. Why waste time and resources on something you don’t believe in any more?
A person who is strongly attached to someone will exhaust all options before deciding to let go of that lover, but if by one mistake or mishap in a relationship you are first to call it quits, brother or sister, you might need a retreat to rest your heart back in position because sometimes hope is the only force that drives a relationship.
Once it dies, only then should you unplug and say goodbye. Whatever it is, don’t be fast to quit and neither should you hold on too long for something your heart already psychologically ended.