Most people will claim that by being alone, you do not risk anything, and you can have the best life. Well, that may be true but is rendering yourself to loneliness the right move to make?
There is more to life than just being comfortable, it is being able to get out there and take a leap of faith in so many other aspects.
Once you choose to hide your emotions in a closet and live a lonely life, you are banishing yourself from love and being loved. Much as sometimes love seems like a punishment, most people have been their happiest when they are in a relationship.
Delaying love is not a guarantee that you will never get your heart broken. There are very many people who take long without dating with hopes that they will be heartbreak free but guess what?
Heartbreaks are no respecter of persons, they even torture people; who you would think deserve a crown for resisting temptations that keep calling out their names but hey, life has its own rules and sometimes going through something might make you stronger or even immune so yes, go out there and pull all the walls down.
Love is not a punishment; it is an experience that we freely get and can freely give. You can choose to turn it down and ignore it but when it finally turns its back on you, you might spend a lifetime in regret.
The New Year is approaching fast, and it would be great if one of your resolutions is to consider sharing your life with someone else. If it hurts, lets it hurt but on a good side, it might be a new chapter of joy and unspeakable happiness.