The couple’s introduction took place on November 10, 2024, followed by their wedding on November 24. Without an event planner, the couple managed every detail with the help of family, friends, and their wedding committee. PHOTO | OLIVIER MUKAAYA
Emma Magambo and Phionah Alupo first met at church where they were actively serving in the same ministry. Although they had seen each other countless times, they had never spoken. That changed when Magambo was tasked with finding a venue for a church outing, and Alupo was assigned as his assistant.
Initially, neither of them asked for the other’s phone number. During their next meeting, Alupo humorously pointed out, “How are we supposed to coordinate if you do not know my phone number?” This comment made everyone laugh, and Magambo quickly corrected the oversight.
“After exchanging numbers, we were able to work seamlessly, finding the perfect venue for the outing,” he recalls. “After the trip, our communication did not stop. The more we talked, the more I realised how much I enjoyed our conversations. Alupo’s warmth and personality made me wonder how I had gone so long without truly knowing her.”
Alupo says she had noticed Magambo before but had assumed he already had a girlfriend.
“I hesitated initially because he did not even ask for my phone number,” she says. “But once I pointed it out, the ice broke, and we started talking. Working with him on the project made me realise he was kind, humble, and genuinely caring. I knew there was something special about him.”
As their connection deepened, Magambo knew he could not let her slip away.
“We started as friends, taking time to truly get to know each other,” he says. “It did not take long for me to realise she was extraordinary, a person I wanted in my life for the long haul.”
Alupo adds, “Our conversations grew more meaningful, and over time, I saw how genuine, intentional, and God-centred he was. Slowly, we built a bond that strengthened with every interaction.”
The two soulmates prioritised face-to-face meetings whenever possible, cherishing the moments spent together despite their busy schedules and living in different neighbourhoods; Magambo in Kisaasi and Alupo in Kyanja, both Kampala suburbs.
“Calls kept us connected, but our in-person meetings brought a special warmth to our relationship,” she explains.
Magambo admired Alupo’s unwavering faith and the grace with which she carried herself. “Her love for God, family, and her vision for a united and faith-filled family resonated deeply with me. I knew she was the one,” he says.
Alupo was drawn to Magambo’s kindness, humility, and integrity. “His ability to balance ambition with compassion and his dedication to putting God first in everything made me realise I had met someone special,” she shares.
A beautiful courtship
The lovebirds dated for seven months before making their relationship official. Their courtship was a transformative time during which they focused on building trust and aligning their life goals.
“We spent a lot of time praying together, seeking God’s guidance and ensuring we were aligned spiritually and personally,” Magambo explains. “Our conversations about values, expectations, and dreams only deepened my love and commitment to my sweetheart.”
Alupo describes their courtship as a period of growth and intentionality. “Emma’s thoughtfulness, consistency, and spiritual leadership made me feel secure and loved. We shared our dreams and plans for the future, and it was clear we were working toward the same goals.”
The proposal
The proposal was simple yet meaningful, rooted in mutual understanding. Magambo explains, “I expressed my intentions to meet her parents and start planning our future together. From there, everything fell into place naturally.”
He adds, “A grand proposal is lovely, but the true essence lies in understanding each other and building a foundation of trust and love.”
Wedding preparations
The couple’s introduction took place on November 10, 2024, followed by their wedding on November 24. Without an event planner, the couple managed every detail with the help of family, friends, and their wedding committee.
“We communicated our vision, ensuring everything aligned with our style,” they share. “Our families and friends played a crucial role in making the day perfect.”
However, wedding preparations were not without challenges. Coordinating their busy schedules, finding the perfect venue, and attending marriage counselling sessions in Entebbe while juggling work commitments were all hurdles they faced. Despite this, their determination and the unwavering support of loved ones made everything come together beautifully.
Memorable moments
Magambo fondly remembers watching Alupo walk down the aisle. “I could not hold back my tears. She looked stunning, and I felt God affirming our union.”
Alupo treasures the moment Magambo recited his vows.
“Hearing his promises filled me with so much joy. Another highlight was when Magambo started dancing; something we had not planned because I am not a great dancer. It was hilarious and beautiful.”
Marriage counselling
Through marriage counselling, the couple gained valuable insights about commitment, communication, and forgiveness.
“I learnt that marriage is about building a partnership based on trust and mutual respect,” Magambo shares. “The sessions emphasised the importance of patience, compromise, and supporting each other through life’s seasons.”
Alupo adds, “The counselling taught us that no one is perfect and that sacrifice and grace are essential for a strong marriage. It also reinforced the importance of putting God at the centre of our relationship.”
Advice for singles
Magambo advises young men to be intentional and prayerful in their search for a life partner.
“Take time to truly know the person. Build a foundation of trust and shared values. Be willing to compromise, and never force a relationship if it does not feel right.”
Alupo encourages young women to trust God’s timing and focus on self-growth.
“Be patient and prayerful and know what you want in a partner. When it is God’s plan, everything will fall into place beautifully.”
