Akankunda implores the public to be sensitive to persons with disabilities

Ms Promise Akankunda
What you need to know:
- Ms Akankunda urges PWDs to lead by example, proving their capabilities to society.
Ms Promise Akankunda, an editor with NTV, was born with a physical disability but has not allowed it to define her path. While she acknowledges the many challenges faced by people with disabilities (PWDs), she believes her preparedness has shielded her from most of them. However, what she finds intolerable is being looked down upon or subjected to lingering stares that seem to question her normalcy.
One of her toughest moments was during her O-level studies when she felt like a spectacle under the constant scrutiny of others. This was in stark contrast to her primary school days, which she recalls fondly as a time when she played games freely, largely ignoring those who discriminated against her. Things took a turn for the better during A-level when her self-esteem blossomed, allowing her to view herself as no less than anyone else.
“I came to appreciate that I am a human being who is capable of doing a lot for myself,” she confidently says.
Ms Akankunda observes that many PWDs internalise the belief that their disabilities limit their abilities to form friendships or pursue opportunities, a mindset she describes as damaging. "That alone is enough to dent your self-esteem," she notes.
She warns that such thinking can lead to isolation and loneliness, depriving PWDs of meaningful connections. Her advice to them is to surround themselves with those who truly know, respect, and understand them. “Make these your tribe and draw strength from them,” she encourages.
To her, friendships transcend physical ability. She enjoys spending time with her friends, emphasising that fun and camaraderie should not be limited by disabilities. "Why should you fear people who don’t know you?" she asks. "You should feel comfortable wherever you go, based on how you carry yourself and your values."
Ms Akankunda addresses a common complaint that PWDs often display a negative attitude. She argues that this perception stems from misunderstanding and disrespect. “Even without a disability, no one would respond kindly to being disrespected. Why should you look at me in a despicable manner or gossip about me, then expect me to have a friendly relationship with you? The reception you give us will most likely be returned. We are not naturally mean-spirited,” she asserts.
She also demystifies stereotypes about disabilities, such as the misconception that they are hereditary. Using herself as an example, she points out that no one else in her family has a disability. She is equally frustrated by those who pity PWDs as if they lack skills or talents. “We can make a difference in our communities just like the able-bodied do,” she states firmly.
Ms Akankunda urges PWDs to lead by example, proving their capabilities to society. "You have to show them what you’re capable of so they can change their attitude. Let society learn from you, not the other way around."
She also calls on society to foster inclusivity by taking the time to understand PWDs, such as learning sign language or communicating with the deaf. “Rather than segregate, take time to understand us,” she urges.
Her appeal extends to leaders, whom she believes play a critical role in addressing stigma and promoting inclusivity. She highlights practical measures, such as constructing buildings with ramps and access ways for people with physical disabilities and educating the public about the value of inclusion.
“Stigma can only be discouraged if everyone gets involved,” she concludes, advocating for a collective effort to build a more inclusive and understanding society.